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Romantic? Moi?

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In a comment on my previous post Lloyd suspected me of dewy-eyed romanticism based on my choice of films. I shuddered and then thought about why I like those films. I realised that each film reminds me of things that I want to be reminded about.

I like The Third Man’s film noir gloom because it reminds me of the starkness of moral dilemmas. It condemns utilitarianism, with its disregard for the sanctity of human life, which can be treated as one side of an equation, with one’s well-being or other ‘good’ being the other. A sick child or a wounded soldier dying of adulterated penicillin drives the point home uncompromisingly. The images of post-war Vienna, with its hushed up life, helplessness, seedy and desperate decadence feel familiar. Apart from the decadence. :-)

I like Casablanca for showing how fighting for a Greater Cause leaves few choices to the individual. I value the nuances with which the characters and their situations are portrayed – the old German waiter in Rick’s bar who helps others, the young Bulgarian wife willing to sell her body save herself and her husband, the rousing rendition of La Marseillaise that moves even Yvonne, Rick’s ‘girlfriend’ and an easy companion to German officers frequenting his bar. The film’s insistence on sacrificing personal desires to do the Right Thing is harsh. The soppy romantic bits a la "Here’s looking at you, kid!" etc, well done as they may be, leave me fairly cold as they are the stuff of many movies. It is what happens in the end that’s makes this film memorable.

Some Like It Hot is just damn funny (and the first film I have ever seen in English, before I could actually speak any, when I was 13). Great story, brilliant acting and perfect comic timing – just like the rakish and fast-paced Restoration comedies. Romantic in a farcical sort of way, I guess, humour being the main reminder here.

Finally, the ultimate romantic story of Romeo & Juliet reminds me of the futility of youth and the aforementioned dewy-eyed romanticism. And I simply adore the poetry, the language, the allusions – in short – Shakespeare’s genius shown in beautiful colours, enacted by beautiful people. My favourite bits are Act I. Scene V. where Romeo and Juliet meet for the first time (the history’s best chat-up lines) and Mercutio’s rant attacking the Queen Mab in in Act I, Scene IV. Glorious.

Well, now you know. And if you still think my choices have anything to do with romanticism, there is always guns and motorbikes to prove my point. Or not. :-)

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3 Responses to “Romantic? Moi?”


  1. Lloyd
    on Feb 2nd, 2006
    @ 23:04 pm

    Cool – to which I’d add that what I also saw in that selection was a common theme of unrequited, unfulfilled love – the aching disappointment of what might have been, what they might have had, if only huge societal forces (and Tony Curtis’s cross-dressing) hadn’t got in the way.

    I don’t know why you balk at it – I see you full of passion and pride for your work and how you think the world should be, particularly the individual’s relationship to society.

    OK, so obviously I’m the dewy-eyed one but I maintain that you’re still a romantic juat a pistol-packin’, commie-huntin’, bike-ridin’ one. :)


  2. Adriana
    on Feb 3rd, 2006
    @ 9:40 am

    Not balking at anything, Lloyd. Just setting the record straight, so people don’t treat me like Bambi. Causes my guns to go off… :-P


  3. Rob Halper
    on Feb 4th, 2006
    @ 22:11 pm

    I don’t think anyone will ever mistake you for Bambi, or if they do, it will only be once! I think Lloyd’s comment is insightful.

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